I bought a new rig and need to mod my HOTAS Cougar. Please help.

[MAYAman]

Negative, I'm speaking of the connector at the base of the actual flight stick. You unscrew the large grey nut, and the flight stick comes right off. Looks like a PS2 connection, actually looks exactly like a PS2 connection but my PS2 extension doesn't fit it so its not a PS2 connection.

Just need a way to span the distance between the base, which you have pictured, and the flight stick. They connect right at the base of the stick portion.