Gel-ler, Did you guys open up the ports on which ever rig is hosting? You have to do that first, then you should have no problems hosting using your ip address.
Go here:
https://portforward.com/router.htm Find your router and follow instructions. One word of advice. AT SOME POINT THE WEBSITE WILL TELL YOU TO BUY THE NETWORK UTILITY WHATEVER. DO NOT BUY IT.
Also....make sure your using you public IP and not the local IP.
And to reply to Storborer:
Never had any issues hosting a dogfight mission or co-operative mission using 4.14.1 on hyperlobby. Other than the whole no players around.
I think the dedicated servers have an issue because the software they use for stats hasn't been updated in.....10 years or so? Perhaps some of the talented guys over at SAS could look into updating that?
Or since the stock 4.14.1 is modable, maybe someone could look into updating HSFX to 4.14? Of course it also wouldn't hurt if Daidalos Team actually put out a detailed guide on how to add mods to 4.14.