Can anyone answer a stupid question for me? I went into ATAG and could not see where I change/setup the name I fly under so it was just using the name on the Steam account. I need to start collecting stats under my proper squad name.

Hey mate..

It will use your steam account name in game.

Just goto steam profile and change your name there and viola...

All settings friends etc stay the same...only name changes

Thanks for that.

I have been trying to join the ATAG server and although I see it in the Game Server Directory website list as live I cannot see it in my server list in game.

There are no filters on that I can see are enabled. Any help appreciated.

Try the direct connect on the ATAG-Site, see here: http://theairtacticalassaultgroup.com/