Please help! Unable to connect

[Flanker1985]

Hey guys. Please help. For some reason I can't play online with my friend. Everytime when I try to connect it, it will tell me "please wait" and then tell "connect time out" or something like that.

And for some weird reason, I can connect with my friend if I go on to the Hyberlobby and only if my friend host a game. If I host a game, my friend wouldn't be able to join. (It will tell him "time out" as well)

But now, jet war is about to introduce MiG-21 into IL-2. Me and my friends really want to play them together. But hyberlobby wouldn't recognise SAS or HSFX.
Please have sympathy for a flight sim player's heart
Help me, ~please