How are you supposed to play this online?

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The fog of war hides everything until your units die, while the opposing player kills everything. For example, my tanks never live for more than a few seconds because there is -always- an AT gun hiding in the fog of war; how the hell am I supposed to see that? Seriously, how do you play when your units are seemingly always exposed, but the opponent's remain hidden?

I think this game is really great from the skirmish missions I've played, and I don't like to compare it to Company of Heroes, but at least in Company of Heroes Multiplayer you can see what's attacking you unless it was a howitzer or artillery of some kind. Is there just something about multiplayer I'm just not getting?