Join Errors???

[HauptmannMolders]

Hey guys,

I convinced a buddy of mine to grab this game over the holidays and we settled in a for a couple of online matches last night only to be frustrated for 30min. We tried everything, Invites, Custom Matches etc but over and over and over we both kept getting join errors. Yet other players joined and I was able to play with them. What gives? Anybody else go through this? I hate to say it but the online issues are killing this game, they are not terrible but 30min of frustration is more than enough to make even someone moderately interested say to hell with it. We gave up and played MW2 and I was little embarrassed I've been talking this game up A LOT. Any thoughts on what we may have done wrong???