Unfortunately I can't help with your problem; I have the same one!
However, I thought you'd be interested to know who the 'guy' in your photo is, in case you don't already know:
http://www.nascar.com/drivers/dps/cedwards00/cup/
It seems you are already involved in the greatest flight sim around. Let me introduce you to the greatest racing sim there is:
http://forum.racesimcentral.com/forumdisplay.php?f=1197
Don't let the forums put you off (reminds me of the old 'Ubizoo' days). The physics in ARCA are amazing, and are going to get better with the next patch.