OMG, just stop answering him ! The title of this topic itself is the evidence of intolerance and frustration. Why does a gamer have to EXPLAIN that the way some other players choose to play is stupid ? taking time for this ? wtf !?
Do I EXPLAIN to my wife playing card just for fun is stupid !?
Do I EXPLAIN to my son his favorite color sucks !? (even if it sucks

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We play the way we want. Having fun in an individual game is an individual matter.
Period.