Danjama: Certainly sorry for your disappointment. Personally I find it very difficult to attempt to fly and type. Also as i am busy looking for enemy I often miss chat messages.
Trust me no one ignores on purpose. Much of the fun in multiplayer is having the opportunity to talk to so many different people, and making friend at the same time.
Give team speak a chance, you wont be disappointed. If you see me on TS give me a holler, we can go to a "help" channel and work on anything you want.
Knuckles
P.S. most of the folkes on TS are a bloody hoot