Why are you complaining about pilot skill, lack of rest or mental breakdowns? This is a FLIGHT SIMULATOR, not a "I live in England, it's 1940 and I'm oh so tired that my CO has sent me down to reserve for a nice cup of tea and some R&R" Simulator.
Besides that, I don't think your ever going to see a perfect simulation of any aircraft in "a game". The technology they are using has it's limits! And to me, flying both sides, the OP seems to make little sense with no evidence and is rather biased... This topic will become nothing more than Subjective! It's like trying to argue with religion - nobody has the facts and it all settles down to opinion - in the end; someone get's banned.