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Originally Posted by raaaid
if i have to say the last person who was rude to me in real life i would have to go back like 20 years ago
and well in forums ehem
but in a way this makes forums much more authentic, honest and without disguise for fear of getting a punch
so plz call me wacko and i know you mean it, say this is an interesting though and i know you mean it
myself i admitted many times im much more honest telling what i think on forums than in real life
what about you?
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Well, It's an interesting thought. When are we most acting in the way we really are? Or maybe the question is when are we least acting? Life is a role play where we always play some role in the social context we currently act in. At work as a manager I act in one way, with my kids in another way, with my childhood friends in another way and with my recent friends in one. When are we really not acting? It's all about the stage and how you have played your role on that stage before as that is the filter that your next move will be filtered through. If you raaaid would start a thread about physics here on this forum all the readers would filter what you said through all they remember about your previous threads and answer correspondingly, and probably answer it another way than if a person that posted here for the first time...
So, is the only time we get a "true" response the first time we enter a new "blank" stage? How often does that happen? And as newcomers to a new stage we are often treated in a suspicious way that is not "true" either... And when is the only time we act as the persons we really are? Certainly not the first time on a new stage
/mazex