Unless evidence is giving on members saying such things, surely your post is just as de-constructive and, thus, hypocritical? What's the saying: all talk, no action?
I mean I agree that such things are just rude, but I can't recall one member saying all that! I think it all get's spread across the board like marmite. That's metaphorical, and ambiguous, if you get my drift
I think we should put the past behind us and focus on the future. If the same thing happens, then-yes-we have reason to get annoyed.