Hmm... I do not think there is such a mod for MoW, anyways you can try and find it here --->
http://www.digitalmindsoft.eu/forums/viewforum.php?f=15
Personally - you named thing i would absolutely
hate to see in the game, haha. Not that it matter anything though.
My suggestion - give a multi-player a try if you can. Put unlimited points ( where "point pool" regenerates when units die ) Then you don't have to micromanage so much, since no one will live long enough to pick up ammo and such, hehe .
If you haven't unlocked all the missions yet - there are many, where you get a lot of troops, and can "buy" them for points. Well not A LOT, but close to 100 soldiers at once ) See how to unlock all missions here -->
http://www.digitalmindsoft.eu/forums...hp?f=15&t=2499
Don't know if it was any help...